Female here, 30 yo. Back in my single days I used to watch porn fairly frequently. And then I found a good guy and we started dating a couple years back. And then I found his mega shit ton of porn and flipped out. Obviously, a little hypocritical on my part. Anyway, got over it and now I don't really care (with your help..thanks!). But I have a question. So I think one of the reasons it kind of bugged me was that he might be thinking of his Internet skankies while he was doing it with me.Why would I think this? Because I do it myself with him! There are things that really turn me on that I wouldn't want a guy to do to me in real life and so a lot of times I might be thinking of that while he's going down on me. Which in and of itself really doesn't bother me but then I started thinking that maybe he just doesn't do it for me if I have to think of that stuff to get off. I don't think I've ever gotten off just having a blank mind is what I'm saying... I'm usually fantasizing about something. I can't really ask anyone if that's normal because I don't want to be told that their partner is so mind blowingly sexy that all they have to do is just look at them and they have orgasms. So is this normal? I feel like I'm attracted to my but maybe this is a symptom of not having that total all out animalistic attraction for someone.
Confused In Seattle
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