Your advice to NOPE implies that all or nearly all men use porn. That may be true, but not all porn is equal. Perhaps NOPE could find a form of porn she doesn't find threatening that might also turn on her man. If it's pictures or vids that freak her out... she might be okay if he limited himself to erotic stories. Or if it's the fact that porn features other women, maybe her guy might enjoy male-on-male porn. (I've encountered plenty of straight guys who are into watching gay porn.) If it's the super-sexy unrealistic comparisons to her humanly imperfect body, maybe she'd feel better about amateur porn featuring imperfectly human women. Maybe instead of deciding ALL porn is bad, she could figure out what specifically ABOUT the porn is triggering her feelings.Wants Understandable Solutions
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