I'm in love with a married woman. I think she's into me, and she's generally unhappy in her marriage. But, like I said, I'm in love with her. I dont want to mess up her life, and I definately don't want to be the girl on the side. I want to be HER girl and I want her to be mine. I haven't told her how much I care about her yet, because I dont want to ruin the friendship we have. (I'd rather have her as a friend then not have her at all).Should I tell her? Should I not? Or should I castrate myself from my feelings for her, denying myself that happiness that comes from loving her?
Smitten Totally And Sad In Seattle
My response after the jump...