I am an 20-year-old female college student dating a 23-year-old guy. I am a kinkster/fetishist and have varied interests and enjoy participating in the fetish community. I met my boyfriend at a kink party and things got serious pretty fast between us. Sexually/kink-wise we get along wonderfully, I enjoy spending time with him, and we're very compatible personality-wise. However, he does not want to be monogamous and wants to continue to sleep around and I very much want to be monogamous.I care about him so much and don't want to stop dating him, but the thought of him being with other girls is painful and heartbreaking. I feel like he will fall in love with one of the girls he sleeps around with, stop caring about me, and dump me. How can I overcome the tremendous jealousy I feel when he plays around with other girls?
Konfused Kinkster
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