I am currently a senior college guy with one major dilemma I'm not sure how to deal with. I feel like being the fucking genius that you are, you'd be able to help me out.They say college is the time to experiment and try new things. And I'm all for it. There's one thing I've wanted to try that I haven't tried yet. Sex. With. A. Girl. But of course... there's a catch.
I'm a huge butt pirating gay queer. I love me some penis, and I'm working on the whole coming out thing. One of my closest friends is kind of a whore. And by that I mean she approached me at the bar the other week and asked me to have sex with her before graduation. She has no idea I fuck boys.
Now I'm totally for it, and it would strictly be sex and we both know it. We are both very sexual people so I can definitely see this happening. So my question is: Should I tell her I'm a flaming queer before we do it? Some of my friends say just do her while others think I'm an asshole for even considering it. What should I do?
Confused Heteromosexual
P.S. Thanks for the It Gets Better Project. Its really helped me realize life is going to be ok after coming out, even with ridiculously conservative parents who have already told me they'll disown me if I choose an "alternative lifestyle."
My response after the jump...
